How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:52
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Has your mother ever walked in on you at an inappropriate time?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why do so many guys love anime girls?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Procrastinates a lot.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
What would you change in Rings of Power?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Do people have to be a pastor to baptize?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How does Bollywood influence Indian culture?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Do other British people agree that the UK should reconquer Ireland?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What I need from you?
How do I maintain and care for granite countertops in a coastal climate like Pompano Beach?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Which city should one visit between Nice and Cannes? Why?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Ask yourself:
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Do you have any opinion on Japanese writer/actor Yukio Mishima?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Milky Way arcs over Kitt Peak National Observatory photo of the day for June 16, 2025 - Space
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: